Aasmani Rishtay

It is a general observation that parents are found cursing their sons who have changed after their marriage. Daughter-in-law is generally blamed of getting their son converted to merely a husband rather than a son and brother. Apart from individual examples which are not more than a few, problems generally lied underneath the lack of understanding the sensitive nature of relation that grow more touchy after marriage. Two families come into contact and if the both are not kept and maintained in a balanced way, relations get deteriorated and the climax sometimes reaches the peak point of divorce.  Post-marriage issues at home are sometimes really pathetic.scenes at home are sometimes really pathetic.

Weighing both sides in an equal way is the key to the respectful and reasonable solution of all post-marriage issues at home. When there is an equilibrium between wife and the parental side, generally complaints of the both die out and husband comes up successful. The crux of the matter is that parents feel themselves insecure after their daughter-in-law reaches home whereas, daughter-in-law takes them as enemies or adversaries whose mission is to undermine the character of the former. Proper division of time and attention to both and discussing their complaints as a family is the key to peaceful solutions. Due to lack of education, our ladies are house wives who are less patient to the other party at home. The need is to put the both at their proper place avoiding any tilt.