Joint Family System has gone
Saturday, 22 June 2013
The family was quarrelling at midnight and Iwas hearing their loud voices in the neighboring house. Te loud volume of furious voices told me the story even from a distance. Dispute was between family and newly-wed daughter in law and the reason was pretty trivial:
''You people don't give me any importance in this home. I am nothing to you all. I am the eldest daughter-in-law but no one considers me worth respect. I cannot live in such a family where no one even bothers me'' one voice screamed.
''Ok, ok. Don't shout. Lower your voice. I am the head of this home and I don't allow anyone to speak like this'', the head retaliated.
''I don't know anyone. Who are you? You are not my head of family. I don't need your permission to say anything. I'll tell all your kinship how cheap you peole are.I don't care for you. I am leaving your home. Hell with this home that has no respect for me. I need a separate home for me to live in with my life partner'', daughter-in-law concluded.
This is the story of the majority of our homes when after marriages, a happy home divides into two parties generally at cross puposes. Reasons are the same almost everywhere. And the result is also same in form of separation of the son after marriage. No one party is to blame. Both are responsible to some extent if not equally. The nutshell of the reason is lack of impatience from both sides. But suffers as a result of this impatience? What is your opinion?
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posted @ 05:28,
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