Aasmani Rishtay

One of the burning issues of the present day world is the gap going wider between parents and the young generation and the wall is getting higher and higher with every passing day. Parents are complaining that they have lagged behind in the race of the hour and the young lot is desirous of going unchecked. Both have their own arguments and reasons. Elders are holding the reins of values and traditions while youngsters are flying with the new winds. New technologies and advancements have given to the humanity a lot in form of blessings and has taken heavy price, on the other hand, from the pocket of conventions.

Salman, just 15, is the only son of his parents and he is a successful flirt. He is proud of his latest flirt with a girl who is doing masters in a university. Being asked, he says,

''I want catharsis, want to share my thinking, my feelings, my likes, dislikes. I cannot share all that with parents who are more preachers than parents. They have only one target in their life, to rebuke me, to check me on each and every thing''.....''I cannot watch movies, sit on my computer till late at night, can't go for hang outs'', he does not stop. ''My mother is always after me to see what I am doing, where I am going. And my father.....he will never allow me to do what I wish. He is just an adviser. I can't live in this prison'', he goes on.

Salman has left home twice but luckily was found once in Karachi and second time in a bus to Islamabad from Lahore. And the reason he gives to flee is not only alarming but horrible too. Generation gap! Latest technologies are stealing the offspring from parents. They know or perhaps do not know that Social Media is parenting the new lot. It is fostering them and they are trusting it more than they trust in their parents or families. School going lot is having mobiles the uses of which are more than normal conversation. Call and message packages have broken into our walls and in the storm of mobiles, parents are rivals. And the bitter reality of today is parents have to run with the new age; youngsters will not stop or slow down for their sake.  

The modern age and latest technologies have given birth to new needs. Changing environment has affected household affairs and matrimony is one of the biggest issues of our age. Now parents do not drag their feet to find a suitable match for their son or daughter. Instead, the youngsters select their life partners during studies or on social media. Chats on social media and mobile contacts generally lead to meetings which result in the wedding of the both. Such decisions are generally based on emotional wave and both the boy and girl fly in the air of fantasy but as soon as they come down to the world of reality, they come to know that the phase of fantasy is over. Bitter realities snake up from all around and mutual quarrels arise and trivial issues at home turn disputes.

 

Parents generally keep themselves aloof from all this scenario on the excuse that they had not their will in the marriage and now they were not responsible. So no elderly support is available and the ultimate end of story reaches a sad climax destroying the couple and if they have kids, these little souls suffer the most.

The family was quarrelling at midnight and Iwas hearing their loud voices in the neighboring house. Te loud volume of furious voices told me the story even from a distance. Dispute was between family and newly-wed daughter in law and the reason was pretty trivial:

''You people don't give me any importance in this home. I am nothing to you all. I am the eldest daughter-in-law but no one considers me worth respect. I cannot live in such a family where no one even bothers me'' one voice screamed.

''Ok, ok. Don't shout. Lower your voice. I am the head of this home and I don't allow anyone to speak like this'', the head retaliated.

 

Before a decade or so, head of the family decided about the marriage of his offspring who were supposed to surrender before father or even grandfather in authority. They had no other option but to say yes to the decision. The very basis of decision were pure logical and after weighing the pros and cons of that marriage. Marriages within family were in vogue and it was out of question to go out of clan. The verdict of father or grandfather was a royal order never to be disobeyed. But that was pre-Internet and specially pre-Social Media age. Now life partners are searched on Internet.

Advent of computers and Information technologies has changed the way people meet and get to know each other. Now people can go to different sites, register and upload profiles and images and start looking for people with whom they want to spend rest of their lives and get settled. No other media could do this the way World Wide Web is doing. This trend has given birth to different web sites that offer their platforms to look for soul mates. Now there are different Internet dating services, each with their own niche, style and features. It is overwhelming to choose some time.

 

Aasmani Rishtay, so aptly named premiere free online dating service that connects single men and women with other like minded people is one of the best places to start looking. If you are single and looking, join us in one simple step and browse the database and see who all are already there. May be what you are looking for is one of them. Have a look.

Life is a series of different experiences under different situations. It is a deep bliss of love and loyalty which we want to share with someone. We want to have good time with someone who is near to our heart, listens to our beats and hears what we want to say. And at times we find ourselves in a state when are in dire need of someone who understands and accompanies us no matter what happens with us in life. Such a great life partner is really a blessing by

Allah.

 

Those who have got their partners, are lucky and those who are in search of a partner, who matches the colour of their dreams, are thinking on their perfect match.Isn't it so? We have felt the pulse of the changing world and increasing problem of finding proper matches for girls and boys both have driven us to make a platform to address this issue. Here we will collect data from our valued members and their families and make the both parties mutually decide about their decision of marriage. You can trust us and we would answer your trust with our sincere efforts on line to find a perfect and ideal match for you.